{"id":3186,"date":"2024-09-21T11:07:28","date_gmt":"2024-09-21T08:07:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/?p=3186"},"modified":"2024-10-08T11:16:40","modified_gmt":"2024-10-08T08:16:40","slug":"suauge-alkoholiku-vaikai-kas-tai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/index.php\/2024\/09\/21\/suauge-alkoholiku-vaikai-kas-tai\/","title":{"rendered":"Suaug\u0119 alkoholik\u0173 vaikai\u00a0\u2013 kas tai?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/index.php\/product\/zurnalas-kelione-2024-m-nr-iii\/\">\u201eKelion\u0117\u201c 2024 m. Nr. III (31)<\/a><\/p><p>Suaug\u0119 alkoholik\u0173 vaikai (SAV)&nbsp;\u2013 tai Dvylikos \u017eingsni\u0173, Dvylikos tradicij\u0173 programa \u017emon\u0117ms, kurie u\u017eaugo alkoholizmo paveiktoje ar kitokioje disfunkcin\u0117je \u0161eimoje. SAV programa pagr\u012fsta \u012fsitikinimu, kad \u0161eimos disfunkcija yra liga, kuri paveik\u0117 mus, kai buvome vaikai, ir kuri veikia mus jau suaugusius. SAV nariai gali b\u016bti ir suaug\u0119 \u017emon\u0117s i\u0161 \u0161eim\u0173, kuriose nebuvo vartojama nei alkoholio, nei narkotik\u0173, ta\u010diau \u010dia jie patyr\u0117 prievart\u0105, apleistum\u0105, neprie\u017ei\u016br\u0105 ar nesveik\u0105 elges\u012f.<\/p><p>SAV grup\u0117se susirenkame pasidalyti savo gyvenimo ir sveikimo patirtimi i\u0161laikydami vieni kitiems pagarb\u0105. Suvokiame, kaip alkoholizmas ar kita \u0161eimos disfunkcija paveik\u0117 mus praeityje ir kaip veikia dabar. Pradedame atpa\u017einti \u017ealojan\u010dias savo vaikyst\u0117s patirtis. Darydami Dvylika \u017eingsni\u0173, sutelkdami d\u0117mes\u012f \u012f SAV Sprendim\u0105 ir priimdami mylin\u010di\u0105 Auk\u0161tesni\u0105j\u0105 J\u0117g\u0105, kaip j\u0105 suprantame, atrandame laisv\u0119.<\/p><p><strong>\u201eSkalbini\u0173 s\u0105ra\u0161as\u201c <\/strong>arba bruo\u017eai, kurie apib\u016bdina padarinius, kilusius augant alkoholizmo paveiktoje arba kitokioje nesveikoje \u0161eimoje:<\/p><p>Mes tapome atsiskyr\u0119, bijantys kit\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173, ypa\u010d turin\u010di\u0173 autoritet\u0105.<\/p><p>Mes \u0117m\u0117me siekti kit\u0173 pritarimo ir tai darydami praradome save.<\/p><p>Mes bijome pikt\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 ir bet kokios asmenin\u0117s kritikos.<\/p><p>Mes arba tampame alkoholikais ir (arba) tuokiam\u0117s su alkoholikais, arba susirandame kitoki\u0105 kompulsyvi\u0105 asmenyb\u0119, pavyzd\u017eiui, darboholik\u0105, kad patenkintume savo liguist\u0105 poreik\u012f b\u016bti apleistiems.<\/p><p>Mes \u017ei\u016brime \u012f gyvenim\u0105 kaip aukos. \u0160i silpnyb\u0117 mus traukia ir veikia m\u016bs\u0173 meil\u0117s bei draugyst\u0117s santykius.<\/p><p>Mes turime per didel\u012f atsakomyb\u0117s jausm\u0105. Mums lengviau r\u016bpintis kitais nei savimi, nes taip mes i\u0161vengiame \u012fd\u0117miau pa\u017evelgti \u012f savo pa\u010di\u0173 klaidas ir t. t.<\/p><p>Mes jau\u010diam\u0117s kalti, kai u\u017estojame save ir nenusileid\u017eiame kitiems.<\/p><p>Mes tapome priklausomi nuo susijaudinimo.<\/p><p>Mes painiojame meil\u0119 ir gailest\u012f. Esame link\u0119 myl\u0117ti \u017emones, kuri\u0173 galime gail\u0117ti ir juos gelb\u0117ti.<\/p><p>Mes u\u017eslopinome savo traumuotos vaikyst\u0117s jausmus ir praradome geb\u0117jim\u0105 jausti ar i\u0161reik\u0161ti jausmus, nes tai labai skaudu (neigimas).<\/p><p>Mes negailestingai save teisiame ir turime labai menk\u0105 savivert\u0119.<\/p><p>Mes \u2212 priklausomos asmenyb\u0117s. Did\u017eiausia m\u016bs\u0173 baim\u0117 \u2212 b\u016bti paliktiems. Siekdami i\u0161saugoti santykius, mes pasiruo\u0161\u0119 daryti bet k\u0105, kad nereik\u0117t\u0173 i\u0161 naujo k\u0119sti skausmingo apleistumo jausmo, kur\u012f patyr\u0117me gyvendami su sergan\u010diais, emoci\u0161kai mus apleidusiais \u017emon\u0117mis.<\/p><p>Alkoholizmas yra \u0161eimos liga; mes tapome para-alkoholikais ir \u012fgijome ligai b\u016bding\u0173 bruo\u017e\u0173, net jei alkoholio niekuomet nevartojome.<\/p><p>Para-alkoholikai prat\u0119 ne veikti, bet reaguoti.<\/p><p>Vienintel\u0117 s\u0105lyga tapti SAV draugijos nariu yra noras sveikti nuo padarini\u0173, kurie atsirado augant alkoholik\u0173 ar kitoki\u0105 disfunkcij\u0105 turin\u010diose \u0161eimose.<\/p><p><strong>\u00a0Daugiau informacijos apie SAV susirinkimus ir draugij\u0105 bei kontaktus galima rasti: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.suaugevaikai.lt\/\">www.suaugevaikai.lt<\/a><\/strong><\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" 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