{"id":1580,"date":"2023-06-15T06:57:04","date_gmt":"2023-06-15T06:57:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/?p=1580"},"modified":"2024-07-15T21:44:13","modified_gmt":"2024-07-15T18:44:13","slug":"mark-manson-viskas-ka-reikia-zinoti-apie-santykius-1500-poru-patarimai-i-dalis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/index.php\/2023\/06\/15\/mark-manson-viskas-ka-reikia-zinoti-apie-santykius-1500-poru-patarimai-i-dalis\/","title":{"rendered":"Mark Manson. Viskas, k\u0105 reikia \u017einoti apie santykius: 1500 por\u0173 patarimai. I dalis"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/index.php\/zurnalai\/\"> \u201eKelion\u0117\u201c, 2022 m. Nr. II (22)<\/a><\/p><p><em>Niujorke gyvenantis ra\u0161ytojas Markas Mansonas\u00a0\u2013 tarptautini\u0173 bestseleri\u0173 \u201eSubtilus menas nekru\u0161ti sau (ir kitiems) proto\u201c ir \u201eViskas yra sukru\u0161ta. Knyga apie vilt\u012f\u201c autorius. Jo tinklara\u0161tis MarkManson.net per m\u0117nes\u012f sulaukia daugiau nei 2 mln. skaitytoj\u0173.<\/em> <\/p><p><em>\u0160iame straipsnyje pristatomi daugiau nei pusantro t\u016bkstan\u010dio \u201egyvenan\u010di\u0173 ilgai ir laimingai\u201c por\u0173 surinkti patarimai. Su\u017einokite, kaip jiems pavyksta taip gyventi.<\/em><\/p><p>Kai prie\u0161 kelerius metus ved\u017eiau, metrikacijos skyriaus priimamajame papra\u0161iau keli\u0173 vestuv\u0117se dalyvavusi\u0173 vyresni\u0173 ir i\u0161mintingesni\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 pasidalinti trumpais patarimais, kaip nepasi\u0161iuk\u0161linti santuokoje. Manau, daugelis jaunaved\u017ei\u0173 taip daro, tai yra klausia patarim\u0173 d\u0117l santyki\u0173, juolab i\u0161g\u0117r\u0119 kelis kokteilius i\u0161 visiems skirto baro, u\u017e kur\u012f patys k\u0105 tik sumok\u0117jo.<\/p><p>Tada suvokiau, kad per savo svetain\u0119 galiu pasiekti t\u016bkstan\u010dius sumani\u0173, nuostabi\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 ir taip \u017eengti \u012f priek\u012f. Kod\u0117l gi nepasitarti su savo skaitytojais? Kod\u0117l nepaklausti j\u0173, k\u0105 svarbiausio patart\u0173 santyki\u0173 ar santuokos klausimais? Kod\u0117l gi nepaversti j\u0173 i\u0161minties ir patirties \u012f tai, k\u0105 galima tiesiogiai pritaikyti bet kuriems santykiams, kas beb\u016btum\u0117te?<\/p><p>Kod\u0117l neparengti GERIAUSIOJO SANTYKI\u0172 VADOVO, KUR\u012e PERSKAI\u010cIUS NEREIK\u0116S JOKI\u0172 KIT\u0172 VADOV\u0172, pasitelkus sumanius ir nuovokius mylimuosius, besilankan\u010dius mano tinklalapyje markmanson.net?<\/p><p>\u0160tai ko paklausiau:<em> klausykit\u0117s visi, kurie esate ved\u0119 bent 10 met\u0173, ir tebesate laiminguose santykiuose\u2026 kokiais patarimais pasidalintum\u0117te su kitais, tur\u0117dami toki\u0105 prog\u0105? Kas veiksminga jums ir j\u016bs\u0173 sutuoktiniui? <\/em>Be to, paklausiau i\u0161siskyrusi\u0173j\u0173: <em>kas jums nebuvo efektyvu?<\/em><\/p><p>Atsakymai mane priblo\u0161k\u0117. Man atsak\u0117 kone pusantro t\u016bkstan\u010dio \u017emoni\u0173, ir daugelio j\u0173 atsakymai u\u017e\u0117m\u0117 puslapi\u0173 puslapius, ne \u0161iaip pastraipas. Man prireik\u0117 ilg\u0173 savai\u010di\u0173, kad visk\u0105 i\u0161analizuo\u010diau, o tai, k\u0105 atradau, mane pritrenk\u0117.<\/p><p>Vis\u0173 pirma, patarimai ne\u012ftik\u0117tinai kartojosi.<\/p><p>Tai ne \u012f\u017eeidimas&nbsp;\u2013 ties\u0105 pasakius, atvirk\u0161\u010diai, ir, neverta au\u0161inti burnos, man palengv\u0117jo. Atsakymus i\u0161 viso pasaulio siunt\u0117 protingi ir i\u0161kalb\u016bs \u017emon\u0117s, dirbantys \u012fvairiausius darbus, kiekvienas su sava istorija, klaidomis, tragedijomis ir triumfais\u2026 ir vis d\u0117lto jie visi pateik\u0117 i\u0161 esm\u0117s t\u0105 pat\u012f tuzin\u0105 punkt\u0173.<\/p><p>O tai rei\u0161kia, kad tie punktai buvo nepaprastai svarb\u016bs ir\u2026 veiksmingi.<\/p><p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>B\u016bkite kartu d\u0117l teising\u0173 prie\u017eas\u010di\u0173<\/strong><\/p><p>Prie\u0161 prad\u0117damas d\u0117styti, k\u0105 tur\u0117tum\u0117te daryti, prad\u0117siu nuo to, ko nedaryti.*<\/p><p><em>\u201eNe\u012fsitrauk \u012f santykius vien tod\u0117l, kad ka\u017ekas tave spaud\u017eia. Pirm\u0105syk ved\u017eiau, nes mane aukl\u0117jo kataliki\u0161kai ir tiesiog buvau ver\u010diamas tai padaryti. Klaida. Antr\u0105syk tuokiausi, nes buvau nelaimingas, vieni\u0161as ir maniau, kad vedus mylin\u010di\u0105 \u017emon\u0105 viskas i\u0161sispr\u0119s savaime. Dar viena klaida. Man prireik\u0117 trij\u0173 bandym\u0173, kol suvokiau, kas tur\u0117jo b\u016bti akivaizdu nuo prad\u017ei\u0173: vienintel\u0117 prie\u017eastis b\u016bti su \u017emogumi yra tai, kad tiesiog labai patinka b\u016bti su juo. Tiesiog.\u201c Gregas<\/em><\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/connect-20333-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1581\" width=\"757\" height=\"505\" srcset=\"https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/connect-20333-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/connect-20333-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/connect-20333-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/connect-20333-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/connect-20333-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/connect-20333-2000x1333.jpg 2000w, https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/connect-20333-24x16.jpg 24w, https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/connect-20333-36x24.jpg 36w, https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/connect-20333-48x32.jpg 48w, https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/connect-20333-600x400.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 757px) 100vw, 757px\" \/><\/figure><p>Ra\u0161ydamas lai\u0161k\u0105 skaitytojams su pra\u0161ymu atsi\u0173sti patarim\u0173, papra\u0161iau tre\u010di\u0105 ar ketvirt\u0105 syk\u012f susituokusi\u0173j\u0173 nurodyti, kokias klaidas padar\u0117 pirmaisiais kartais. Kol kas da\u017eniausias atsakymas: \u201eBuvau su \u017emogumi d\u0117l klaiding\u0173 prie\u017eas\u010di\u0173\u201c.<\/p><p>Kelios j\u0173 nurodytos klaidingos prie\u017eastys:<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>jaut\u0117 draug\u0173 ir \u0161eimos nari\u0173 spaudim\u0105 tuoktis;<\/li><li>jaut\u0117si <em>nevyk\u0117liais<\/em>, mat buvo vienu\u017eiai ir tada grieb\u0117 pirm\u0105 pasitaikius\u012f;<\/li><li>buvo kartu d\u0117l \u012fvaizd\u017eio, nes santykiai atrod\u0117 gerai popieriuje (ar nuotraukose), o ne tod\u0117l, kad du \u017emon\u0117s i\u0161 ties\u0173 \u017eav\u0117josi vienas kitu*;<\/li><li>buvo jauni ir naiv\u016bs, bevilti\u0161kai \u012fsimyl\u0117j\u0119 ir man\u0117, kad meil\u0117 pad\u0117s nugal\u0117ti visas kli\u016btis.<\/li><\/ul><p>Tai, kas padeda santykiams veikti (o veikti rei\u0161kia, kad jie turi b\u016bti laimingi ir tvar\u016bs abiem santyki\u0173 pus\u0117ms), reikalauja autenti\u0161ko gilaus \u017eav\u0117jimosi vienas kitu. Be tokio abipusio \u017eav\u0117jimosi visa kita pasmerkta suirti.<\/p><p>Kita \u201eneteisinga\u201c prie\u017eastis\u00a0\u2013 prad\u0117ti santykius siekiant, kaip sak\u0117 Gregas, <em>suremontuoti <\/em>save. \u0160is tro\u0161kimas pasitelkti kito asmens meil\u0119, siekiant su\u0161velninti savo paties emocines problemas, nei\u0161vengiamai veda prie kopriklausomyb\u0117s\u00a0\u2013 nesveikos ir \u017eeid\u017eian\u010dios dviej\u0173 asmen\u0173 dinamikos, kuri egzistuoja kaip nera\u0161ytas susitarimas naudotis vienas kito meile, kad u\u017emir\u0161tum\u0117te, kaip stipriai bjaurit\u0117s pa\u010diu savimi. I\u0161samiau kopriklausomyb\u0119 aptarsime v\u0117liau, o kol kas verta pa\u017eym\u0117ti, kad meil\u0117 savaime yra <em>neutrali<\/em>. Ji gali b\u016bti tiek sveika, tiek nesveika, ir naudinga, ir \u017ealinga\u00a0\u2013 tai priklauso nuo to, <em>kod\u0117l <\/em>bei <em>kaip <\/em>mylite \u017emog\u0173 ir <em>kod\u0117l <\/em>bei <em>kaip <\/em>tas \u017emogus myli jus. Vien meil\u0117s santykiams palaikyti niekada nepakanka.*<\/p><p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>Tegu j\u016bs\u0173 l\u016bkes\u010diai meilei ir romantikai b\u016bna real\u016bs<\/strong><\/p><p><em>\u201eTikrai neb\u016bsite apkvai\u0161\u0119 i\u0161 meil\u0117s vienas kitam kiekvien\u0105 likusio gyvenimo dien\u0105; visa \u0161i \u201egyveno ilgai ir laimingai\u201c nes\u0105mon\u0117 tiesiog pasmerkia \u017emones nes\u0117kmei. Jie u\u017emezga santykius tur\u0117dami \u0161iuos nerealius l\u016bkes\u010dius. O tada, kai staiga supranta, kad neb\u0117ra apduj\u0119, pamano, kad santykiai pa\u0161lijo, viskas baigta ir reikia skirtis. Ne! Bus dien\u0173, savai\u010di\u0173, o gal net ilgesni\u0173 laikotarpi\u0173, kai neb\u016bsite belekaip \u012fsimyl\u0117j\u0119. Bus netgi taip, kad pabusite kur\u012f nors ryt\u0105 ir pagalvosite: \u201eEt, tu vis dar \u010dia\u2026\u201c Tai normalu! Ir dar svarbiau, kad likti kartu verta, nes\u2026 po dienos, savait\u0117s, o gal net ilgesnio laiko, pa\u017evelgsite \u012f t\u0105 \u017emog\u0173 ir jus u\u017epl\u016bs mil\u017eini\u0161ka meil\u0117s banga, ir j\u012f myl\u0117site taip stipriai, kad atrodys, jog \u0161irdis niekaip nepaj\u0117gs visos tos meil\u0117s i\u0161laikyti ir tuoj tuoj sprogs. Mat gyva meil\u0117 nuolat tobul\u0117ja. Ji ple\u010diasi ir traukiasi, \u0161veln\u0117ja ir gil\u0117ja. N\u0117ra tokia, kokia buvo anks\u010diau ar tokia, kokia bus\u00a0\u2013 ir netur\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti. Manau, jei daugiau por\u0173 tai suprast\u0173, jos b\u016bt\u0173 ma\u017eiau linkusios panikuoti ir skubotai skirtis.\u201c Paula<\/em><\/p><p>Senov\u0117je \u017emon\u0117s nuo\u0161ird\u017eiai laik\u0117 meil\u0119 liga. T\u0117vai \u012fsp\u0117davo vaikus d\u0117l jos, o suaugusieji greitai suorganizuodavo vedybas, vaikams dar nepasiekus to am\u017eiaus, kai gal\u0117t\u0173 i\u0161kr\u0117sti k\u0105 kvailo d\u0117l nevaldom\u0173 emocij\u0173 bangos*. Taip daryta tod\u0117l, kad meil\u0117, nors ir galinti mus apsvaiginti ir suteikti euforij\u0105, tarsi b\u016btume su\u0161niauk\u0161t\u0119 kilogram\u0105 kokaino, geba paversti mus ir itin iracionaliais. Visi pa\u017e\u012fstame kok\u012f vyruk\u0105 (ar mergin\u0105), metus\u012f mokykl\u0105, pardavus\u012f automobil\u012f ir i\u0161leidus\u012f visas santaupas slaptoms vestuv\u0117ms Tai\u010dio papl\u016bdimyje. Taip pat \u017einome, kad jis (ar ji) gal\u0173 gale po keli\u0173 met\u0173 jaut\u0117si tarsi paskutinis kvailys&nbsp;\u2013 ir dargi kvailys be skatiko ki\u0161en\u0117je.<\/p><p>Tokia ne\u017eabota meil\u0117 yra gamtos b\u016bdas mus apgauti, ver\u010diantis daryti nesveikus ir iracionalius veiksmus tam, kad prat\u0119stume gimin\u0119. Jei stabtel\u0117tume pakankamai ilgai ir pam\u0105stytume apie vaik\u0173 tur\u0117jimo pasekmes (k\u0105 jau kalb\u0117ti apie buvim\u0105 su tuo pa\u010diu \u017emogumi am\u017einai), retas tai daryt\u0173.<\/p><p>Akla romanti\u0161ka meil\u0117* yra sp\u0105stai, sukurti tam, kad du \u017emon\u0117s pakankamai ilgai nepasteb\u0117t\u0173 vienas kito yd\u0173 ir prad\u0117t\u0173 k\u016bdik\u012f. Paprastai tokia meil\u0117 trunka vos kelet\u0105 met\u0173.* Tas svaigulys, kur\u012f jau\u010diate \u017ei\u016br\u0117dami \u012f savo mylimojo akis taip, tarsi jos b\u016bt\u0173 \u017evaig\u017ed\u0117s rojuje,\u00a0\u2013 jis da\u017eniausiai i\u0161nyksta. Kai jo nebeliks, turite \u017einoti, kad sudar\u0117te s\u0105jung\u0105 su \u017emogumi, kur\u012f nuo\u0161ird\u017eiai gerbiate ir su kuriuo leisdami laik\u0105 m\u0117gaujat\u0117s, nes kitaip viskas klostysis sud\u0117tingai.<\/p><p>Tikra meil\u0117&nbsp;\u2013 gili, pastovi meil\u0117, kurios nepaveikia emociniai kaprizai ar iliuzijos*&nbsp;\u2013 yra nuolatinis \u012fsipareigojimas, atsparus esamoms aplinkyb\u0117ms. Tai nuolatinis \u012fsipareigojimas \u017emogui, kuris, suprantama, ne visada tenkins visus j\u016bs\u0173 poreikius&nbsp;(o ir netur\u0117t\u0173!), \u017emogui, kuriam reik\u0117s jumis pasikliauti, kaip ir jums juo.<\/p><p>Tokia meil\u0117s forma yra daug sunkesn\u0117, vis\u0173 pirma, tod\u0117l, kad ji da\u017enai reikalauja priimti ne itin teigiamus jausmus. Joki\u0173 blizgu\u010di\u0173. Ji&nbsp;\u2013 tai daug apsilankym\u0173 pas gydytoj\u0105 anksti ryte. Ji&nbsp;\u2013 tai k\u016bno skys\u010di\u0173, kuri\u0173 ver\u010diau nevalytum\u0117te, valymas. Ji&nbsp;\u2013 tai susid\u016brimas su kito \u017emogaus nesaugumo aprai\u0161komis ir baim\u0117mis net tada, kai nenorite su jomis susidurti.<\/p><p>Vis d\u0117lto \u0161i meil\u0117s forma taip pat teikia daug daugiau pasitenkinimo ir prasm\u0117s. O svarbiausia, atne\u0161a tikr\u0105 laim\u0119, o ne vien dar vien\u0105 pakilim\u0173 serij\u0105.<\/p><p><em>\u201eIlgai ir laimingai\u201c neegzistuoja. Kiekvien\u0105 dien\u0105 atsibundi ir i\u0161 naujo pasirenki myl\u0117ti savo partner\u012f ir savo gyvenim\u0105\u00a0\u2013 ger\u0105, blog\u0105 ar bjaur\u0173. Kai kuriomis dienomis tai kova, o retkar\u010diais jautiesi laimingiausiu \u017emogumi pasaulyje.\u201c Tara<\/em><\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"694\" src=\"https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/gc44ec4701a71f5a2f7caffe0030e59e116f735d1e4b9ec719dfad769a12701de22ea73181a21787ccb667f5aef58b293-1024x694.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1582\" srcset=\"https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/gc44ec4701a71f5a2f7caffe0030e59e116f735d1e4b9ec719dfad769a12701de22ea73181a21787ccb667f5aef58b293-1024x694.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/gc44ec4701a71f5a2f7caffe0030e59e116f735d1e4b9ec719dfad769a12701de22ea73181a21787ccb667f5aef58b293-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/gc44ec4701a71f5a2f7caffe0030e59e116f735d1e4b9ec719dfad769a12701de22ea73181a21787ccb667f5aef58b293-768x521.jpg 768w, https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/gc44ec4701a71f5a2f7caffe0030e59e116f735d1e4b9ec719dfad769a12701de22ea73181a21787ccb667f5aef58b293-1536x1041.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/gc44ec4701a71f5a2f7caffe0030e59e116f735d1e4b9ec719dfad769a12701de22ea73181a21787ccb667f5aef58b293-2048x1388.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/gc44ec4701a71f5a2f7caffe0030e59e116f735d1e4b9ec719dfad769a12701de22ea73181a21787ccb667f5aef58b293-2000x1356.jpg 2000w, https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/gc44ec4701a71f5a2f7caffe0030e59e116f735d1e4b9ec719dfad769a12701de22ea73181a21787ccb667f5aef58b293-24x16.jpg 24w, https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/gc44ec4701a71f5a2f7caffe0030e59e116f735d1e4b9ec719dfad769a12701de22ea73181a21787ccb667f5aef58b293-36x24.jpg 36w, https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/gc44ec4701a71f5a2f7caffe0030e59e116f735d1e4b9ec719dfad769a12701de22ea73181a21787ccb667f5aef58b293-48x33.jpg 48w, https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/gc44ec4701a71f5a2f7caffe0030e59e116f735d1e4b9ec719dfad769a12701de22ea73181a21787ccb667f5aef58b293-600x407.jpg 600w, https:\/\/oldoriginal.zurnalaskelione.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/gc44ec4701a71f5a2f7caffe0030e59e116f735d1e4b9ec719dfad769a12701de22ea73181a21787ccb667f5aef58b293-1200x813.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure><p>Daugelis \u017emoni\u0173 taip ir nepasiekia \u0161ios gilios, bes\u0105lygi\u0161kos meil\u0117s*. Jie tampa priklausomi nuo romanti\u0161kos meil\u0117s peripetij\u0173*. Jie, taip sakant, \u012fsijau\u010dia. O kai jausmai nusenka, krinta ir noras palaikyti santykius.<\/p><p>Kai kurie \u017emon\u0117s u\u017emezga santykius siekdami kompensuoti tai, ko jiems tr\u016bksta, ar tai, ko nepaken\u010dia savyje*. Tai \u2013 bilietas \u012f toksi\u0161kus santykius be kelio atgal, nes tokie siekiai daro j\u016bs\u0173 meil\u0119 s\u0105lygin\u0119&nbsp;\u2013 myl\u0117site savo partner\u012f tik tol, kol jis pad\u0117s jums jaustis geriau. J\u016bs kitiems duosite tik tol, kol jie duos jums. D\u017eiuginsite juos tik tol, kol jie d\u017eiugins jus.<\/p><p>\u0160is s\u0105lygi\u0161kumas u\u017ekert\u0105 keli\u0105 bet kokiam tikram, giliam intymumui ir tvirtai susieja santykius su kiekvieno \u017emogaus vidin\u0117mis dramomis.<\/p><p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>Svarbiausias santyki\u0173 veiksnys\u00a0\u2013 ne komunikacija, o pagarba<\/strong><\/p><p><em>\u201ePasakysiu jums, kad vis\u0173 svarbiausia\u2026 pagarba. Ne seksualin\u0117 trauka, ne i\u0161vaizda, ne bendri tikslai, ne religingumas, ne \u0161i\u0173 aspekt\u0173 tr\u016bkumas, net ne meil\u0117. Kartais nejausi meil\u0117s partneriui. Bet niekada neprarask pagarbos jam. Jei tik prarasi pagarb\u0105, ji niekada negr\u012f\u0161.\u201c Laura<\/em><\/p><p>Skaitydamas \u0161imtus atsakym\u0173, kuriuos gavau, pasteb\u0117jau \u012fdomi\u0105 tendencij\u0105: skyrybas patyr\u0119 \u017emon\u0117s beveik visada kalb\u0117jo, kad svarbiausias efektyvi\u0173 santyki\u0173 elementas yra bendravimas. Da\u017enai kalb\u0117kit\u0117s. Kalb\u0117kit\u0117s atvirai. Kalb\u0117kit\u0117s apie visk\u0105, net jei skaudu.<\/p><p>Ir tai duoda naudos (apie j\u0105 pakalb\u0117siu v\u0117liau).<\/p><p>Ta\u010diau pasteb\u0117jau, kad \u017emon\u0117s, esantys laimingoje santuokoje 20, 30 ar net 40 met\u0173, da\u017eniausiai kalba apie <em>pagarb\u0105<\/em>.<\/p><p>Nujau\u010diu, kad \u0161ie \u017emon\u0117s per did\u017eiul\u0119 patirt\u012f i\u0161moko, kad komunikacija, kad ir kokia atvira, skaidri ir disciplinuota b\u016bt\u0173, tam tikru momentu patiria nes\u0117km\u0119. Konfliktai beveik nei\u0161vengiami, \u012fsi\u017eeidimai nori nenori \u012fvyksta.<\/p><p>Ir viena, kas gali i\u0161gelb\u0117ti jus ir j\u016bs\u0173 partner\u012f, kas gali jums abiem su\u0161velninti skaud\u0173 nuopuol\u012f d\u0117l \u017emogi\u0161k\u0173 klaid\u0173*, yra tvirta abipus\u0117 pagarba. Labai svarbu, kad j\u016bs vienas kit\u0105 gerbtum\u0117te, tik\u0117tum\u0117te vienas kitu (da\u017enu atveju smarkiau nei kiekvienas tikite pa\u010diu savimi) ir pasitik\u0117tum\u0117te, kad kitas pagal savo i\u0161gales daro visk\u0105, k\u0105 gali.<\/p><p>Be \u0161io pagarbos pagrindo prad\u0117site abejoti vienas kito ketinimais. Smerksite partnerio pasirinkimus ir kelsite gr\u0117sm\u0119 j\u0173 autonomijai. Bijodami kritikos jausite poreik\u012f vienas nuo kito sl\u0117pti dalykus. Ir \u0161tai tada ims ry\u0161k\u0117ti ply\u0161iai santyki\u0173 m\u016bre.<\/p><p><em>\u201eSu vyru kartu esame penkiolika met\u0173. Daug m\u0105s\u010diau apie tai, kas gi laiko mus kartu, m\u016bs\u0173 aplinkoje santuokoms gri\u016bvant (i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 tai vyksta visur, tiesiog esame tokio am\u017eiaus). Vienintelis \u017eodis, kuris vis sukasi mintyse, yra \u201epagarba\u201c. \u017dinoma, tai rei\u0161kia pagarbos rai\u0161k\u0105, bet tai b\u016bt\u0173 pernelyg pavir\u0161utini\u0161ka. Vien jos rodyti neu\u017etenka. Turi j\u0105 jausti giliai viduje. Labai ir nuo\u0161ird\u017eiai gerbiu savo vyr\u0105 u\u017e jo darbo etik\u0105, kantryb\u0119, k\u016brybi\u0161kum\u0105, sumanum\u0105 ir svarbiausias vertybes. I\u0161 \u0161ios pagarbos kyla visa kita: pasitik\u0117jimas, kantryb\u0117, atkaklumas (nes kartais gyvenimas yra tikrai sunkus ir abudu tiesiog turime atkakliai ir i\u0161tvermingai irtis toliau). Noriai i\u0161klausau, k\u0105 jis turi pasakyti (net jei nesutinku su juo), nes gerbiu jo nuomon\u0119. Noriu suteikti jam laisvo laiko m\u016bs\u0173 beproti\u0161kai u\u017eimtame gyvenime, nes gerbiu jo laiko leidimo b\u016bd\u0105 ir jo laisvalaikio bi\u010diuli\u0173 pasirinkim\u0105. I\u0161 ties\u0173, \u0161i abipus\u0117 pagarba rei\u0161kia, kad jau\u010diam\u0117s saug\u016bs dalydamiesi vienas su kitu giliausia, intymiausia asmenyb\u0117s dalimi.\u201c Nikol\u0117<\/em><\/p><p>Gerbdami kit\u0105, turite gerbti ir save (save turi gerbti ir j\u016bs\u0173 partneris). Mat be pagarbos sau nesijausite verti kito rei\u0161kiamos pagarbos&nbsp;\u2013 nenor\u0117site jos priimti ir rasite b\u016bd\u0173, kaip j\u0105 sumenkinti. Nuolat jausite kompensacijos poreik\u012f ir poreik\u012f \u012frodyti patys sau, kad esate verti meil\u0117s<a href=\"#_ftn1\" id=\"_ftnref1\"><sup>[1]<\/sup><\/a>, o tai negali nesugr\u012f\u017eti bumerangu.<\/p><p>Pagarba savo partneriui ir pagarba sau yra persipynusios. Kaip nurod\u0117 kitas skaitytojas\u2026<\/p><p><em>\u201eGerbk save ir savo \u017emon\u0105. Niekada blogai nekalb\u0117k su ja ar apie j\u0105. Jei negerbi savo \u017emonos, negerbi ir sav\u0119s. Tu pasirinkai j\u0105\u00a0\u2013 gyvenk pagal \u0161\u012f pasirinkim\u0105.\u201c Olavas<\/em><\/p><p>Tad kaip rei\u0161kiama pagarba?<\/p><p>Da\u017eni daugelio skaitytoj\u0173 pasi\u016blyti pavyzd\u017eiai:<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>NIEKADA nekeikite savo partnerio ir nesisk\u0173skite juo savo draugams. Jei kilo problema, tur\u0117tum\u0117te kalb\u0117tis su juo, o ne su kuo kitu. Blogai kalb\u0117dami apie savo mylim\u0105j\u012f kit\u0173 akivaizdoje, pama\u017eu naikinsite jam jau\u010diam\u0105 pagarb\u0105 ir pasijusite blogiau\u00a0\u2013 ne geriau.<\/li><li>Gerbkite kito teis\u0119 tur\u0117ti kitokius pom\u0117gius ir perspektyvas. Vien tod\u0117l, kad leid\u017eiate savo laik\u0105 ir energij\u0105 kitaip, nerei\u0161kia, kad tai geriau ar blogiau.<\/li><li>Priimkite tai, kad mylimieji turi vienodo svorio \u017eod\u012f santykiuose, kad esate komanda, o jei nelaimingas vienas komandos narys, vadinasi, nesiseka visai komandai.<\/li><li>Joki\u0173 paslap\u010di\u0173. Jei tikrai esate kartu ir gerbiate vienas kit\u0105, tur\u0117tum\u0117te \u017eaisti s\u0105\u017einingai. Susi\u017eav\u0117jote kitu asmeniu? Aptarkite tai. Pasijuokite i\u0161 to. Galvon \u0161ov\u0117 keista seksualin\u0117 fantazija, kuri skamba komi\u0161kai? Paatviraukite apie tai. Netur\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti joki\u0173 tabu.<\/li><\/ul><hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/><p>\u2003 * Daugiau informacijos \u0161ia tema rasite autoriaus <a href=\"https:\/\/markmanson.net\/\">svetain\u0117je<\/a>.<\/p><p class=\"has-text-align-right\">I\u0161 angl\u0173 kalbos vert\u0117 K\u0161i\u0161tofas K\u0161ivecas<\/p><style type=\"text\/css\">@import url(\"https:\/\/assets.mlcdn.com\/fonts.css?version=1719836\");<\/style>\n    <style type=\"text\/css\">\n    \/* LOADER *\/\n    .ml-form-embedSubmitLoad {\n      display: inline-block;\n      width: 20px;\n      height: 20px;\n    }\n\n    .g-recaptcha {\n    transform: scale(1);\n    -webkit-transform: scale(1);\n    transform-origin: 0 0;\n    -webkit-transform-origin: 0 0;\n    height: ;\n    }\n\n    .sr-only {\n      position: absolute;\n      width: 1px;\n      height: 1px;\n      padding: 0;\n      margin: -1px;\n      overflow: hidden;\n      clip: rect(0,0,0,0);\n      border: 0;\n    }\n\n   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